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A good question is half of the solution

The subject of parenthood is inexhaustible. I keep receiving letters with more and more questions. Here you can find answers to the most frequently asked questions.

Is it possible to avoid a divorce from hurting the child?

Is it possible to avoid a divorce from hurting the child?

  Of course, it is. When we explain to our children without dramatizing or without blaming the other, when we present the situation as something natural that often happens in the lives of many people, the child will accept the change calmly.   Children usually react...

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How can I tell my child that they were adopted?

How can I tell my child that they were adopted?

The conversation about adoption should start right from the very beginning - from your first day together, even if your child is a very small baby. Invent a beautiful story for your child and tell it as they grow up. For example, about a mother who had spent a long...

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How can we motivate our children to learn?

How can we motivate our children to learn?

Children's curiosity is a thirst for knowledge. Every child is born with an open mind, an exploratory spirit and unlimited potential. Depending on different factors, some children develop their potential earlier and to a greater extent, while others take longer. The...

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Can fairy tales traumatise children?

Can fairy tales traumatise children?

Fairy tales can inspire, reassure but can also scare our children. Some tales are so frightening they can create lasting fears in children. Characters like witches and monsters are the embodiment of evil which must be defeated. However, children at their youngest age...

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How can I deal with my child’s reluctance to eat?

How can I deal with my child’s reluctance to eat?

I remember a situation when I saw a child being literally tortured. The child was stuck between the table and the chair, his head barely visible over the huge plate whose contents had to be eaten. His mother was categorical that the child would not leave the table...

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A good question is half of the solution. The subject of parenthood is inexhaustible. I keep receiving letters with more and more questions.

Relax

Don’t force things

Don't force people to do what you want, don't force relationships, actions and processes. Every force produces resistance. When someone refuses to do something for you, don't insist. That's not the...
Dream

Love your dream

Love your dream, it will never give up on you, so don’t give up on it either. Your dream is the power that drives you forward, the force that will save you even in the most difficult situation, a...
Time for change

When you don’t like something in your life, change it!

"The secret of change is to focus your whole energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new. " Socrates When you don't like the end of a story in your life, you can always write a...
Мъж целува невеста

Love is Psychotherapy

Mutual love is a natural and powerful psychotherapy in which both partners are therapists to one another. When we love and feel loved, we open our soul. The closeness of our beloved allows us to...
Smile at life and it will smile at you, too...

Truth Is a Variable Quantity

Smile at life and it will smile at you, too... The insufficient and inefficient communication between people is the reason why they fill the missing pieces from their relationship puzzle with...
Spring bird

Don’t Postpone for Tomorrow Something That Can Bring You Joy Today!

“Jumping with joy is a good exercise.” by an unknown author They have been teaching us since our childhood years that we shouldn’t postpone today’s work for tomorrow. However, nobody teaches us that...

About Stela

Stela Daskalova is one of the most successful writers in the nonfiction genre in Bulgaria. Her three books are bestsellers in the nonfiction genre for publishing house Ciela – the biggest publishing house in Bulgaria. read more about Stela
Стела Даскалова - Интервю за BBT

За "Всичко започва от детството". С участието и на Мария и Жори.

Публикувахте от Stela Daskalova в Четвъртък, 26 януари 2012 г.