I read What Happens to Love? in one night! It’s such an easy read! Good job! While reading, I have the habit of underlining the most important things. But I realized that I would have to underline almost the entire book, because Stela managed to synthesise in the most accessible form the most important lessons about love.”


Madlen Algafari

writer and psychotherapist



What is it that happens to love that it keeps running away from us? It makes us fly high, but before we know it, we are falling down from the sky. It is almost a necessity, that we have to go through the pain in order to be able to learn to love.

Why do we keep missing each other? We break up, then we regret it. Or we don’t break up, and we still regret it. The book What Happens to Love? will help you find out:

  • How childhood and your relationship with your parents affects your love relationships?
  • What wrong beliefs and subconscious fears are you holding, which are working against you?
  • How do you attract or repel people?

This is a book about:

  • The lows that act in love and our lives
  • The traps that love falls into
  • The mistakes we make in our relationships again and again
Reading What Happens to Love by Stela Daskalova has been a fascinating experience, because in a single book she has married two seemingly incompatible approaches. On the one hand, the author offers a very pragmatic and indeed, rationally structured way to view love and solve love tangles. On the other hand – and quite fortunately, this rationalization has not killed the romanticism and emotionality that have to do with this greatest creative power of the universe. Reading her narrative, I have to admit I enjoyed very much her tone of voice – there is this dialogue quality about it, and one really precious thing – plenty of warmth in the way the she addresses the audience. In the meantime, at certain points the warm and unobtrusive quality of her style changes, as emotions gather momentum and transform into truly passionate discourse. This special duality of the book by Stela Daskalova appeals to me very much and it also makes its messages universal.
Daniela Konstantinova

translator, radio presenter & copywriter

This is a book about love, written with love. Book that teaches us how to love ourselves, life and others. A book that helps us discover beliefs that prevent us from being happy.
Kamelia Georgieva


“Hello, Stela Daskalova! I’m writing to you with gratitude towards the book “What happens with love”. I am impressed with the truth of it. I would like you to know that throughout the entire time I was reading it, the smile did not leave my face. I found the answer to numerous agonizing questions and got rid of all the false beliefs getting in the way of my personal growth. I am glad you exist and grateful of what you brought into my life.”
Adriana Stoichkova

“Hello Stela! Thank you for the amazing book! I read it in a whim and not for a second was it boring or uninteresting. I found a lot of my mistakes in it. I hope that, thanks to what I have read, I manage to correct them and continue onwards as a better and more loving version of myself! I have your last book, which was extremely helpful for my relationship with my daughter.

Keep creating!”

Ana Doncheva

“I read “What Happens to Love?” in one night! It’s such an easy read! Good job! While reading, I have the habit of underlining the most important things. But I realized that I would have to underline almost the entire book, because Stela managed to synthesise in the most accessible form the most important lessons about love.”
Madlen Alghafari

writer and psychotherapist

“Reading the book “What happens with love” is an exciting experience, because in it, two seemingly incompatible opinions about love – the rational and the romantic one, have been combined and don’t seem to be getting in each other’s way.”
Daniela Kostadinova

“Dear Stela, I wholeheartedly thank you for the books you have written. As you read them, you are filled with harmony, ease, enlightenment, inspiration, faith and strength. Your books are of the kind that belong to a special place in my library and to which I reach out in need, because they can be a trustworthy compass that I know will lead me in the right direction.”
Gabriela Metodieva

”You are my inspiration…” Stela, I want to say first that you are my inspiration, even without you knowing it. As I have always stated, the books find me by themselves when I am ready for them. A year ago, totally by accident, when my son was just two months old, a friend of mine gave me your book “Everything Begins in Childhood” and I read it at one go…all that you had written I felt like something that was coming from my own heart! It helped me realize what I wanted to give to my child and what I should be careful about! Recently I have read your second book – “What Happens to Love?”. Thank you for coming into my life through your books, for your worldview and for writing right from your soul! I am looking forward to reading your third book! I can’t wait!
Nelly Hadzhiyska

journalist and popular TV anchor

While I was reading the book “Everything Begins with Childhood”, I suddenly felt the strong desire to share it with all my friends who have already become parents or are going to be in the future. In the book I found the wise mother I have always wanted to have. Wise, tender and loving. A mother who is asking herself questions and is searching for ways to become more and more conscious, to develop and grow. In order to be a happy woman. And a happy mother. To a happy child…Because children learn from the personal example of their parents. The book “Everything Begins with Childhood” and its sequel “Every Child Is a Hero” are wonderful guides of every mother and every father on their path to building a healthy, truly close and wise relationship with their children. After some time I came across Stela’s book “What Happens to Love?” in a moment when I was feeling sad and confused after a hard situation in the relationship I had at that time. I was walking around the books in a bookshop, trying to put my thoughts in order and soothe my sad heart when my eyes fell upon “What Happens to Love?”. This was one of the questions I was asking myself at that moment:”What is happening to my love?”. I opened the book to a random page and what I read there made me feel a wonderful wave of warmth as I discovered once again that there are no coincidences in life – the things written on that page gave me the exact guidance I needed especially for my situation at that time. I felt with my soul that I wanted to read the whole book. I had a sudden feeling of calmness and I went to the cashier to buy the book. I found on the pages of “What Happens to Love?” the exact same tenderness as in the other books written by Stela which I had already read. And I also found in the book the support and understanding that we are looking for in a close friend that fill our hearts with warmth and make us feel love. And we need love so much! Love as a mindset and an attitude to the world, and love for ourselves. This is what Stela gives with her books – pure, wonderful love and tenderness while she is exploring the difficult questions holistically – from different points of view, in order to help us see better the whole picture of our relations. In order to help us take our decisions from the position of sincerity, truth, love and harmony.
Mariya Dimitrova

“Hello! A while ago I read your book “What happens with love? ” and wanted you tell you that ever since then I have been your fan! Never, until now, have I read anything as real on this topic. Your book is one of the most truthful creations that I have stumbled upon. I read it during a period when I had some hardships in my relationship with the boy I like and this book showed me what my possible mistakes were and what I could do to have an actual chance with that person. Right now I’m trying to follow most of the advice that you give in the book, and get over a big part of my prejudices. I don’t know what is going to happen in the end, but you showed me that it depends entirely on us what happens with our love and that gave me the motivation to keep going. You’ll probably be surprised to hear that I’m only 17 years-old, but that is the age that we need to know that we’re not the only ones going through all that, and your book definitely helps.  Thank you!”
Melaniya Slavkova

“Hello Stela!

I would like to thank you for your books, which are some of the most helpful books I have encountered. I wish you success and luck (which you actually already possess) and once more – a huge THANK YOU for this priceless read!”

Irena Zasheva

The book “What happens with love” came to me in a very hard moment in my life. I read it in the blink of an eye only in two nights and it became my favorite. It’s amazing! A treasure! Recommended it to many people!

Tsveta Aleksieva


“This book will make you listen to your heart…” The first thing that each of us wants is our children to be healthy! But we do not realize how we ourselves are ruining their health! And this has been happening since the human race appeared on this planet. If there were no parents, maybe there wouldn’t be any psychotherapists, either. This doesn’t mean that we do not love our children. However, we make mistakes because of insufficient knowledge and unawareness! Dear parent, this book will make you reconsider some things! It will help you realize that if you listen to your heart, you will make fewer mistakes. It will also give you plenty of valuable pieces of advice on how to prevent the future problems of your children by having the right attitude to them in their childhood years. There are no perfect parents who never make mistakes! But it is wonderful that the number of conscious parents is constantly growing and that they understand how even the smallest details in parents’ attitude to their children has a huge influence on the children’s future. If you read this book with your heart, you will be one of these conscious parents!
Madlen Alghafari

writer and psychotherapist

While reading Stela’s books, I feel as if my grandmother is hugging me. A sense of security, that you can say whatever you want, cry as much as you like, share even your worst thoughts and feelings, and still feel accepted, loved, understood, forgiven and comforted. I have cried so many times while reading and rereading her books. After that I feel refreshed and new, as if with a clear hard drive, which I can start filling up with more care and love towards what I am putting in…

Gergana Kachorova


“Hello, Stela! I just read your book “What happens with love” and I wanted to congratulate you. It’s wonderful. This is my new favorite book. After everything I have learned about myself and the world in the past year, this book appeared to me as the the most eloquent and simple revision of all the things I have learned. Aware people like you, living outside the matrix, inspire and push the world forwards. Thanks to people like you, I grow and evolve.

Thank you!”

Neda Encheva

“Hello Mrs. Daskalova.

Please accept my admirations for the book “What happens with love?”. It left a strong impression on me. It’s amazing! I read it in a day! I would like to know whether you practice privately as a psychotherapist and how I could contact you? Have a nice evening

Blagovesta Lipcheva

“Contrary to “reader’s ethics”, I will give away what happens at the end of the book “What happens with love?”. Love becomes freed from the chains of our own, formerly planted, wrong beliefs. Love can be a prisoner of our beliefs, and just like a bird, it shares with us its wings. We always choose ourselves.

This book leaves us with two choices – should I take the responsibility over my own happiness (we always want everything to depend on us, right? well it depends!) or continue passively wallowing in sadness (it gets old!)? It’s your choice, reader. You have the key, and you have the door too!

Thank you for the book!”

Kalina Stefanova

radio journalist

“Hello!  I read your book “What happens with love?” and for the first time, a Bulgarian author peaked my interest. It’s written psychologically, yet at the same time it’s intriguing. Are you by any chance a psychologist? You did a good job at describing the traps love makes us fall into… it made me opened my eyes to things I haven’t paid any attention to. I’m 29 years-old, unmarried, and I’m still looking to meet my love. You helped me feel less guilty, that I belong to that group of women who don’t chase after marriage as a goal and simply wish to meet someone nice, without having to commit to my biological clock or anything. Thank you for the wonderful book you’ve written, which filled me with a lot of positive energy!”
Gergana Georgieva