Speaking

I have spoken to hundreds of people and it is a great pleasure for me to meet parents, teachers and readers. I am available for meetings, lectures and seminars in kindergartens and schools.

If you need my professional help for lectures and seminars, you can:

• make an appointment for a consultation by phone: +359 888 60 17 34

• contact me via contact form

• email me at daskalovastela@gmail.com

The main topics of my seminars and lectures are:

• The role and the strength of the positive approach towards children

• How to help children develop self-respect and self-control?

• Тhe most common parental and teachers’ mistakes

• How can we set boundaries without violence?

• Punishments – their uselessness and the damage they may cause

• The causes of child aggression

• Conflict between children

• How can we motivate children to learn?

• Why do children lie?

• Why is it important for kids to have fun?

• Why are friends so important for the child’s personal development?

Frequently Asked Questions

A good question is half of the solution. The subject of parenthood is inexhaustible. I keep receiving letters with more and more questions.

Here you can find answers to the most frequently asked questions.

Is it possible to avoid a divorce from hurting the child?

Of course, it is. When we explain to our children without dramatizing or without blaming the other, when we present the situation as something natural that often happens in the lives of many people, the child will accept the change calmly. Children usually react...

How can I overcome my own fears that I am not doing well as a parent?

Having a child is like experiencing your childhood again. You have the chance to correct the mistakes of your parents. Of course, it's impossible not to make any mistakes, but there is less likelihood, if you approach every situation consciously. Often our children...

How can I tell my child that they were adopted?

The conversation about adoption should start right from the very beginning - from your first day together, even if your child is a very small baby. Invent a beautiful story for your child and tell it as they grow up. For example, about a mother who had spent a long...

How can two parents with different beliefs about education reach agreement?

We are accustomed to accepting differences as something disturbing, but in fact differences can enrich us, and expand our point of view. It's a good thing that parents do not think the same way. In this way children can experience two points of view on the world and...

How can we motivate our children to learn?

Children's curiosity is a thirst for knowledge. Every child is born with an open mind, an exploratory spirit and unlimited potential. Depending on different factors, some children develop their potential earlier and to a greater extent, while others take longer. The...

Can fairy tales traumatise children?

Fairy tales can inspire, reassure but can also scare our children. Some tales are so frightening they can create lasting fears in children. Characters like witches and monsters are the embodiment of evil which must be defeated. However, children at their youngest age...

How can I explain to my child that the goodies they see in advertisements are not good for them?

We often underestimate the ability of our children to understand our true motives. In fact, we can always tell them the truth. We can explain to our child why these foods are harmful and that they need to eat real food to be healthy and strong. Persuasion always works...

Нежеланието на едно дете да се храни е резултат от погрешен подход на възрастните

How can I deal with my child’s reluctance to eat?

I remember a situation when I saw a child being literally tortured. The child was stuck between the table and the chair, his head barely visible over the huge plate whose contents had to be eaten. His mother was categorical that the child would not leave the table...

How do we approach jealousy in children?

Jealousy in children is natural. However, in extreme manifestation, it can be a sign that the parent has not found the balance between showing feelings and distributing attention equally among their children. It can happen when parents have not found the balance...

How do I get my child to tidy their room?

With patience, with a smile, with motivation. It's good to teach children to tidy their things from an early age. Little heroes love to be given tasks which are usually done by adults. When they're five, they like to be involved in any household activity because it...

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Stela Daskalova is one of the most successful writers in the nonfiction genre in Bulgaria. Her three books are bestsellers in the nonfiction genre for publishing house Ciela – the biggest publishing house in Bulgaria. read more about Stela