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How Important Is It to Be Right?

How Important Is It to Be Right?

In my teenage years and for some time after that I liked arguing a lot – with friends, with my parents, even with my teachers (I remember how dedicated I was when I fought against the compulsory school requirement for boys to have a very short haircut). I felt...

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Someone Doesn’t Like You…Everything Is Alright!

Someone Doesn’t Like You…Everything Is Alright!

Someone Doesn’t Like You…Everything Is Alright! In the life of each of us there are those people who give us wings and those who cut our wings. People who try to break us do this because they feel broken. However, whether we will allow this to happen to us depends on us.

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Truth Is a Variable Quantity

Truth Is a Variable Quantity

Smile at life and it will smile at you, too... The insufficient and inefficient communication between people is the reason why they fill the missing pieces from their relationship puzzle with made-up interpretations. This happens on a daily basis to all of us. That is...

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Love is Psychotherapy

Love is Psychotherapy

Mutual love is a natural and powerful psychotherapy in which both partners are therapists to one another. When we love and feel loved, we open our soul. The closeness of our beloved allows us to release the feelings and emotions suppressed over the years which...

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Don’t force things

Don’t force things

Don't force people to do what you want, don't force relationships, actions and processes. Every force produces resistance. When someone refuses to do something for you, don't insist. That's not the right person. You will find someone else who will be only too pleased...

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Love your dream

Love your dream

Love your dream, it will never give up on you, so don’t give up on it either. Your dream is the power that drives you forward, the force that will save you even in the most difficult situation, a force that can change you beyond recognition. Dream courageously. Let...

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When you fall, get up and keep on going!

When you fall, get up and keep on going!

What do you do when you fall down on your's life journey? Some people react like this: "Oh, I had a really bad fall! How awful! What should I do now? Poor me! It hurts so much! Life is so unfair. I never have any luck ... It's his/her fault that I fell ... I think he...

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Frequently Asked Questions

A good question is half of the solution. The subject of parenthood is inexhaustible. I keep receiving letters with more and more questions.

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How can I explain to my child that the goodies they see in advertisements are not good for them?

We often underestimate the ability of our children to understand our true motives. In fact, we can always tell them the truth. We can explain to our child why these foods are harmful and that they need to eat real food to be healthy and strong. Persuasion always works better than prohibitions....
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Is it possible to avoid a divorce from hurting the child?

  Of course, it is. When we explain to our children without dramatizing or without blaming the other, when we present the situation as something natural that often happens in the lives of many people, the child will accept the change calmly.   Children usually react in the way their parents react....
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How can I tell my child that they were adopted?

The conversation about adoption should start right from the very beginning - from your first day together, even if your child is a very small baby. Invent a beautiful story for your child and tell it as they grow up. For example, about a mother who had spent a long time looking for her beautiful...

About Stela

Stela Daskalova is one of the most successful writers in the nonfiction genre in Bulgaria. Her three books are bestsellers in the nonfiction genre for publishing house Ciela – the biggest publishing house in Bulgaria. read more about Stela